When it comes to relationships, mistakes happen. And not just you, the person you are related to also make mistakes. So, the faults don't just come from their side. Sometimes you do it and sometimes them. I have had my prank too!
But relationships are utterly necessary. Relationships are cherished and should last as long as sanity exists in it. So, here are some 30 way to keep your relationships blooming.
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Mind your own business
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Keep your mouth shut when you think yo u are trying to be smart
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Be honest to people
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Trust people and let them know you trust them
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Remember Birthdays (or use facebook calendar updates)
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Look in the eyes and smile at them
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Understand their jokes before anyone else does
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Be better at your job, than anyone else
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Respect opinions but always have your say
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Advice when asked
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Don't make fun in the public
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Be a gentleman
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Decrease your attachments and have more self control
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Read 'The Power is Within You' by Louise Hay
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Read 'How to Win Friend and Influence People' by Dale Carnegie
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Click photos together
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Occasionally, gift them something handmade
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Find what the person enjoys doing
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Encourage like a friend, not philosopher
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Never borrow money from anyone
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If you have borrowed, return it as quickly as possible
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Stay in touch every month
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Go for movies together
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Appreciate their qualities
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Forgive their disabilities and mistakes
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Say sorry (but don't keep offending)
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Leave someone who hates you,..lovingly
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Appreciate yourself
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Love yourself and you will be able to love others
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Be so good that people come to you and say 'You know what, I love You,'
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Don’t be relationship seeker (just allow them to become)
These are just general observations. When you do this, you find peace and have unending possibilities of loving relationships. Like Emily Kinbrough says “Remember, we all stumble, every one of us. That's why it's a comfort to go hand in hand.” Photo Illustration by Michael Hiss via Flickr